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ANY PLACE BUT
HERE, ANY TIME BUT NOW
He doesn’t send flowers anymore. She hasn’t initiated
sex in months. Alas, life’s endless routines get in
the way of most things sensual. Except, of course,
travel. Something about luggage lifts the daily
baggage from our heads and hearts. Minds roam freely
with wanderlust. Lust wanders back into placid
relationships. Fantasies shape up and romance happens.
Now “romance” is a complexity of nouns and verbs, with
almost two inches of definitions in Webster’s
Dictionary. Throw in three more inches if you’re
inclined to be “romantic” and by the time you untangle
all the possibilities for romance, you’ve untangled
all the body parts and failed to seize the moment.
So let me clarify: I define the true romantic as
anyone who wants to be “any place but here, any time
but now.” He’s hard to live with and she’s harder to
travel with. But spontaneity is their mantra, and more
importantly, spontaneity is intricate to romance,
adventure and travel, in general. Especially in the
tropics. Especially in February when the cold, cold
north turns icy white and valentines twinkle in your
lover’s eyes.
Right now is the time to head south to recharge those
numb nerve endings. In the Caribbean, nature heightens
sensuality with warm breezes, barely clad bodies,
exotic beaches and blue, blue water. Sooner or later,
everyone heeds Mother Ocean’s travel call, for indeed,
cruising is one of the most sensual ways to tap that
primal urge. But giant, generic “Love Boats” in Big
City ports with a few thousand strangers are not the
tickets. No, no. Spontaneity’s best friend is bareboat
sailing in say, the Virgin Islands, or maybe the
Grenadines where you choose your own shipmates,
charter your own course and arrange your own infusion
of love, beauty and privacy.
Because we tend to behave differently on vacation, R&R
(relaxation and romance) tickle our fancy and trigger
our wildest dreams. Anything can happen day or night.
Unless of course, your psyche has been penetrated too
deeply with children and PTAs, or too long with
computers and CNBC. For you, the following are some
jump-starts direct from Cupid:
1. Convertible sunbathing. The aft deck of your
private sailboat, crewed or un-crewed, is a natural
for tops-down. Or bottoms-up, for that matter.
2. Skinny snorkeling. There are few finer reefs in the
world for shallow water snorkeling than those off
shore Virgin Gorda. Put on your mask, snorkel and
fins…only. Just you and the angelfish hang out here,
and they’re wearing birthday suits, too.
3. Protect delicate skin; use sunscreen. Slather it on
her, generously. Everywhere. Often.
4. Late night foreplay on the boat’s fore deck. In
fact, spend an entire night topside watching stars
fall into the sea. Their blazing trails are so sexy;
that last great flash of light is akin to a great, er,
well…use your imagination.
When the week is drawing to a close and every fiber
and sinew in your body and soul has been replenished,
a few of you will go that extra mile for romance: You
will not allow yourself to be any place but here, any
time but now. You will pull out the cell phone (which
is on board solely for emergencies like this one), and
perform a ship-to-shore call that cancels all of next
week’s meetings and activities. You will apply the
ultimate in spontaneity; you will remain in Paradise
one more week, and you will trust me when I say, phone
sex doesn’t get better than this.
When You Go
Chartering a sailboat may be done with or without a
captain and crew. Without a crew means cooking your
own meals, charting and sailing your own course, and
generally, looking out for yourself. Only seasoned
sailors may charter a boat in this manner. If you’ve
had some sailing experience, but not enough to skipper
a 40-foot yacht, charter a boat with a captain. You’re
still bareboating, but not in the barest sense.
When you’ve had enough fun working the sails on a
bareboat vacation and want to be pampered and cradled
with TLC, all of the following charter companies can
set you up with everything from captains to gourmet
chefs to limos. They’ve all handled business in the
Caribbean for at least a decade, and they’ve seen it
all. Prices vary from as little as $1,250 per week to
$200,000 plus expenses per week, depending on season,
size of boat and number of guests.
Whitney Yacht Charters, Chicago, (800-223-1426) and
Nicholson Yacht Charters, Cambridge, MA,
(800-662-6066) offer crewed charters, only, throughout
the Caribbean.
The Moorings, New Orleans, (800-535-7289) and Ocean
Voyages, Sausalito, CA, (415-332-4681) offer bareboat
and crewed charters in various Caribbean locales.
© B. Bowers, December 2001
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